3 green flags when dating as a christian single

Hey Queen,

While it’s important to be aware of potential red flags, it’s equally important to look for the positive signs of a healthy and God-honoring relationship. Here are three green flags to look for when dating as a Christian single woman:

1. A Genuine Relationship with Christ

A strong sign of a promising partner is someone who actively pursues a relationship with God. Look for:

• Regular involvement in their faith community, such as attending church, bible study, or serving others.

• A consistent prayer life and a desire to grow spiritually.

• Evidence of God’s fruit in their life, such as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

Their faith should inspire and encourage your own spiritual growth.

2. Respect for Your Boundaries and Values

A green flag is when the person respects your personal, emotional, and spiritual boundaries. This includes:

• Honoring your commitment to purity and supporting your convictions.

• Being a good listener who values your opinions and feelings.

• Demonstrating patience and understanding, even when disagreements arise.

Mutual respect lays the groundwork for a healthy and Christ-centered partnership.

3. A Spirit of Humility and Growth

A partner with humility is willing to admit mistakes, seek forgiveness, and grow in character. Here are some traits to look for:

• Openness to constructive feedback and a willingness to change when needed.

• A teachable heart, whether it’s in their faith, relationships, or personal growth.

• A clear desire to honor God in how they treat others, including you.

A person committed to growth reflects the heart of someone who values a thriving relationship with God and others.

When you encounter someone who demonstrates these green flags, it’s a sign that the relationship may be built on a strong, Christ-centered foundation. Keep praying for wisdom and trust God to guide you in discerning the right path forward. A relationship marked by faith, respect, and humility is one worth investing in!

Remember Queen, you do not have to walk this journey alone. Let me hold your hand and walk with you.

Until next time, take care!