How to know if a Christian man is serious about you
Hey Queen!
Let me tell you from personal experience, that there is nothing like getting your hopes up about a potential Christian guy only to find out that he has bad intentions. The feeling of having all of your fantasies shattered about marriage, kids, the big house the moment you find out that he doesn’t have good intentions is hurtful.
Let’s face it, navigating Christian relationships can be challenging, especially when you’re seeking someone who shares your Christian faith. If you’re wondering whether a Christian man is interested in you, here are some signs to look for :
1. He Prioritizes Meaningful & Healthy Conversations
A Christian man interested in you will want to engage in deep, meaningful discussions that are in alignment with your Christian faith. He’ll show genuine interest in your values, faith journey, and personal experiences, aiming to build a connection beyond surface-level topics.
2. He Respects Your Boundaries
A man of faith will honor your emotional, spiritual and physical boundaries. He understands the importance of purity and mutual respect, demonstrating his care by ensuring you feel safe and valued.
3. He Includes You in His Faith Journey
If he’s inviting you to join him for church services, Bible studies, or prayer groups, it’s a strong sign he sees a future with you. Sharing faith practices is essential in building a Christ-centered relationship.
4. He Shows Consistent Kindness
A Christian man with sincere intentions will exhibit the fruits of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), such as kindness, patience, and love. His actions will align with his words, showing his character and interest.
5. He Seeks Guidance and Wisdom
A man who values your opinion and includes you in decision-making processes is showing he values your role in his life. He may also seek advice from mentors or spiritual leaders regarding the relationship, highlighting his intentionality.
6. He Expresses His Intentions Clearly
A godly man interested in a serious relationship will avoid playing games. He’ll communicate his intentions openly, aiming for clarity and mutual understanding.
7. He Makes an Effort to Serve You
Acts of service are a tangible way to express love and care. Whether it’s helping with a task, supporting your goals, or simply being there when you need him, these efforts demonstrate his interest.
A Christian man’s interest often reveals itself through his actions, words, and commitment to living out his faith. It is important that you look for consistency! Remember to seek God’s guidance as you discern his intentions, and trust that God’s timing and plan for your life are perfect.
What do you think? What are some other ways you can tell that a Christian man is serious about you? Share your thoughts below in the comment section.
Remember Queen, you do not have to walk this journey alone. Let me hold your hand and walk with you.
Until next time, take care!
